~How we met~

How did Richard & I meet?

We met at an Indiana church one Sunday evening....   :) 

Several months before meeting Richard, I met Richard's parents, younger sister and brother at a revival meeting. Richard's dad, Paul, was a minister at another church in the area and friends with my pastor's family.

While spending time with Richard's family... little did I know that his mother and sister would later tell Richard all about me, and that I was in danger of being matched with someone!!! Richard had recently moved to SW Missouri, so I thought nothing of his family talking about him. I recall his mother showing me a family photo... and I remember asking which one was Richard... but honestly! I was only wondering who they were talking about!!! :) I strongly disliked match-making efforts of others, so it's good I didn't realize what was happening.  

Several months later... on April 20th, Richard came to my church fully intending to meet me. 

I was the piano player, so had a good view of the people sitting in the pews... and I thought I recognized Richard, but wasn't sure where I'd seen him before.

After service, Richard walked right up to me and introduced himself. We conversed for about 10 minutes before I began to feel people's eyes on us. The congregation was a small one... and I was the only single lady in the church, so I knew they would all think of match making......   lol!

 I discreetly made my escape (before others could ask me about him or our conversation), telling Richard I needed to leave, but it was nice meeting him.  

I berated myself the whole way home (I was a nanny in Indy), sad that I didn't talk longer with Richard, and that I'd never see him again since he lived in Missouri.    :)

One and half weeks later, I received a card in the mail and stared in unbelief at the return address. "How did he get my address?!?!" I asked over and over again...     :)  :)   :)   lol!

Richard had written a friendly card .... saying that it had been nice meeting me...then, towards the end of the card, "Feel free to write back."   :)

I waited about a week before mailing a letter back to him....   :)

We began a long distance relationship, marrying 10 months after meeting.

Yes, it was a whirlwind courtship, but knew we had found the person we had been waiting for. :)

~I was 22, Richard was 25~  [looking back, we looked like little kids!!  lol!!]

Richard & I married on February 21st, 1998 in the church building where we met.   :)

~A couple tid bits~ :)

Unless you're related to Richard, you may not realize that he drowned when he was two years old. Yes, he drowned. While the family lived in Oklahoma, Richard wandered away from his parents and ended up in the creek pictured below. In April of 1975, heavy rains caused area rivers and creeks to flood. In fact, so much rain had fallen that spring, that farmers had fallen behind with planting their crops....which would explain why Paul & Lynette were busy planting when Richard wandered off.  

When they discovered him in the creek, he was floating under the surface of the water, and  he wasn't breathing. Paul was not trained in CPR, but prayed and asked God to help him~

It seemed a long struggle with death while Richard very slowly "came to", and I'm so thankful God gave Richard back to his parents. 

My reasons are very selfish ones of course. I never would have been blessed to have met and married him.   :) 

 

Richard attended several different schools in his lifetime.... but this is where he attended Kindergarten (Guthrie, Oklahoma)~   :)

Richard also attended a Christian School in Guthrie... he's the cute little guy on the right~  :)

I don't remember what the trophy was for... a spelling bee?

It wasn't until Richard was in his mid  20's that he decided to go to college and pursue an Accounting degree.

So... school took a little longer with working full-time at the Post Office, and caring for a wife and  (eventually) three children.  :) 

After much time and effort (7 years), Richard received his Bachelor's Degree in Accounting, in 2007. We were all so very proud of him for conquering that mountain!!!  

 Richard finished his schooling the same year Antonin graduated from PreK, and we enjoyed a celebration at our home in Belleville, IL  :)  :)  

Sweet memories~